Relationships
are a series of good times and bad. The key is in making the good times
exceptional and brief.
Doing
this makes the bad times increasingly rare, briefer every time, and helps to
maintain a little bit of brightness when they arrive.
No,
you don't have to break the break. We're not talking about tokens along the
lines of Ertha Kitt's infamous Christmas list.
The
big gifts in life might light a fire in the eyes of the woman you love. But,
it's the little things that melt her heart and bind her to you in ways no sable
coats ever will.
Cuddle Time
Women
like to cuddle. Not as a form of foreplay, but simply as a sign of affection.
Holding hands, cuddling on the couch, and laying with her feet (or head) in
your lap are perfect.
They
are all signs of casual intimacy and love that MATTER to her in a really big
way. It's a small gesture on your part that carrier massive weight in her
heart.
Hearing those Three Magic Words
You
know what they are. You've probably said them to her dozens of times. You've
probably not said them to her even more. The thing is, she NEEDS to hear them.
Those
words mean the world to her because they reinforce her position in YOUR world.
Tell her "I love you!" and watch how her face just lights up at the
reminder.
Your Approval
The
other thing your woman needs from you more than you'll ever know or understand
is your approval. Give it to her.
Tell
her she looks great tonight. Even if she "dismisses" it with
something along the lines of a questioning "This old thing," she is
secretly tickled and extremely pleased to hear it.
She
works hard to look good for you, prepare good food for you to eat, and keep
your house in great shape. Acknowledge her efforts and you'll be rewarded with
a very happy girlfriend, wife, or partner on your hands.
Being Asked on a Date
When
was the last time you threw caution to the wind and asked her out on a date?
Not asking her, "Do you wanna go do something?" But, asking her on an
actual date. A date you've planned out ahead of time?
Have
you ever done this?
If
not, now is the time. It will rock her world and melt her heart even more. Try
it! You're going to love the results!
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