ARE YOUR FRIENDS POISON TO YOUR RELATIONSHIP?

Sometimes, friends can get in the way of your relationship in a really big and lethal way. It's hard to find balance between life, love, family, and friends. Everyone wants a little bit of your time.

You must work to find that perfect balance without inadvertently placing your relationship on the back burner. Keeping a safe line of demarcation between friends and your lover, can be a crucial secret for long-term success in your relationship and/or marriage. These small changes will make a big difference.

TRYING TO GET YOUR EX BACK - IS THIS STANDING IN YOUR WAY?

It's not easy to be on the outside looking in at what used to be your path to happily ever after. Being unceremoniously dumped without anyone asking your permission, not only hurts, but it also makes your entire world feel as though it's spiraling out of control. Your solution to the problem is simple.

You have decided to get your ex back. You've thrown all your heart, soul, and energy into the coffers and, yet, you're still not seeing a satisfactory return on your investment. If anything, the cold shoulder your ex has been giving you just keeps getting shoulder. What's going wrong in your efforts to win your ex back? Perhaps, it's one of these common, but fixable, hiccups.

You're Trying Too Hard

You want results and you feel that this is worth an all-out effort on your part. Unfortunately, what your ex needs right now is a little bit of emotional distance from the situation. Sometimes absence really is all it takes to make the heart grow fonder. You just have to give the absence the opportunity to happen. Step back. Scale things down completely and let your ex get a taste of what life is really like without you in it.

Making all the Wrong Moves

At least, that's what it feels like is going on. Every move you make feels like it's pushing your ex further and further away. The thing is, it's not the moves you're making that are the problems. It's the fact that you're making them. Stand down. Give your ex a chance to breathe a little. Use this time wisely to come up with a plan of action designed to get your ex's attention in a really positive way when the timing is right.

Moving a Little Too Fast

This is quite common. Your heart is telling you to get in there and "Nip it in the bud!" You don't want to hear any more of this breakup talk. You want to end it all, right now and get on to the infinitely more enjoyable making up talk. There's a reason Barney didn't get a loaded gun and that he was only given ONE bullet. Your heart means well but it doesn't always steer you in the right direction.

If none of these things work to get your ex back, then what will? It takes a well-planned and executed attack to win your ex back after a breakup. You must spend some serious time planning your strategy and paying attention to the little details. More importantly, it takes knowing what to do next. A second chance is just that -- a chance. If you want to make it work, a second time around then you need a little magic on your side. I can help with that!

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WHY ARE YOU TRYING SO HARD TO GET YOUR EX BACK?

The one thing most people feel immediately after an unexpected, and unwanted, breakup, is desperation to get your ex back. It's a common denominator that most people experience. You're hurting. The breakup caused the pain. Ergo, getting back together with your ex will end the pain.

Right?

Not so fast!

BEING HAPPY IS THE BEST REVENGE

Sometimes, the idea of being happy in your relationship seems elusive. Life gets in the way. You're always torn between work, family, and love. Unfortunately, love and romance often get placed on the back burner. That's not good for your relationship.

Sometimes it takes a serious wakeup call, like a breakup, to make you realize just how little attention you've been giving to one of the most important relationships you'll ever have in your life. By that time, most people think it's too late to make a difference. However, that’s hardly the case.

WHAT SMALL CHANGES CAN YOU MAKE TO MELT HER HEART?

Is your relationship on the edge of an abyss? Is the woman you love threatening to walk away once and for all? Are you willing to do whatever it takes to change the future and fight for your relationship? The good news is that you don't have to dig down deep and give your inner Al Bundy the old heave ho. A few small changes on your part will have her looking at you the way Peg Bundy hasn't seen Al in several decades.

THINGS WOMEN REALLY LOVE FROM THEIR MEN

Relationships are a series of good times and bad. The key is in making the good times exceptional and brief.

Doing this makes the bad times increasingly rare, briefer every time, and helps to maintain a little bit of brightness when they arrive.

GET YOUR BOYFRIEND BACK - THE RIGHT WAY TO THE PERFECT RECONCILIATION

When you've been dumped out of the blue by the guy you know is Mr. Right, the one thing you want more than anything else in the world is to get your boyfriend back.

Unfortunately, the logistics of exactly how to do that are a little harder to lock down than you expect. But, there is a bit of a silver lining to consider.

In most situations, you still have a little bit of time on your hands to work on winning him back. That's right. All is not lost -- at least not yet.

You still have a chance to get your boyfriend back. Here's what you need to do.

SHOULD YOU GIVE YOUR EX A BIRTHDAY PRESENT IF YOU'RE TRYING TO GET YOUR EX BACK?

It's not always easy to know the right move to make in the period of time following a breakup. This becomes even more difficult if you're trying to get your ex back. Most people walk a very fine line between appearing open to the idea of reconciliation and seeming just a tad over-eager.

Getting your ex back is your number one priority. You don't want to do anything to jeopardize that. Yet, you believe you NEED to give your ex something to commemorate the event of his or her birth. It's understandable. But, is it the right move to make?

Ask yourself a few quick questions to help you determine whether or not giving a gift at this stage of your efforts is the right move to make.

5 WAYS TO MAKE DATE NIGHT SPECIAL

5 WAYS TO MAKE DATE NIGHT SPECIAL 

Date night is just around the corner and chances are you're a little bored with the typical dinner and a movie. When this boredom sets in, it may be time to make things a bit more personal by adding a special touch to your date nights. Adding a few special touches to any date night is a sure-fire way to warm the heart and bring a sparkle to the eye of your special someone. Below are 5 ways to make your date night special.

1. Think Outside Of The Ordinary:

The first thing you can do to make your date nights more special is by doing something a little out of the box. Ditch the two for one drinks at your favorite local restaurant and opt for something new - because there is nothing special about a repetitive date night. Dedicate your date night to being spontaneous! Trying something new together is a wonderful experience for the two of you and will create fun memories for a long time to come.

2. Do Not Talk About Work or Stress:

You and your partner have the whole week to talk about work and what is stressing you out, you can leave that out of the conversation for just one special date night. Avoid talking about work, family issues and other stressful matters so the two of you can focus on each other because it has probably been much too long since you simply enjoyed one another's company.

3. Take Things Outdoors:

A great way to make date night special is by sitting under the stars with no pesky waiters, expensive restaurant bills or boring routines. Gather together a picnic and a nice bottle of wine that the two of you can enjoy while taking a look at some of the most beautiful things the world has to offer. Bring a blanket and lay back and gaze at the stars when you are finished eating. This is a truly tranquil and stunning experience - perfect for couples.

4. Relive Your First Date:

There is truly no better feeling than going back to the place where the magic began. As the two of you reminisce during the recreation of your first date, it will be much more meaningful than any other quick-pick date night. This date night serves as a great reminder as to why you love your special someone.

5. Build Anticipation:

The key to a special date night is as simple as a little anticipation. To build anticipation for your special date night, you don't necessarily have to plan weeks head, but the days and hours before the date are crucial. Slip your lover a couple of secret love notes in their car, wallet or even on the mirror to get them excited. The day of the date, try texting your significant other how excited you are about your date night. A little anticipation goes a long way when it comes to making date night as special as it can possibly be. 

If you want to read more about dating tips, I strongly recommend 

"The 300 creative and inexpensive date ideas to rekindle your relationship"

DO YOU REALLY WANT YOUR EX BACK

DO YOU REALLY WANT YOUR EX BACK

Whether he made the choice to break up with you or you made the move to break up with him, the process of making it through a breakup can be a truly heart wrenching experience.

But maybe you start to miss him and part of you wants him back. You get the idea that rekindling the romance could benefit both of you. Yet, something you should consider is that possibly you do not really want him back, you just do not want anyone else to have him.

There is a strong difference between jealousy and wanting to get back into a relationship with someone you once dated. To be sure of your feelings you should not rush back into a relationship with him. Give yourself some much needed time to think the situation through in order to figure out what it is that you really want. Moving slowly is key.

HOW TO REBUILD TRUST AFTER YOU CHEATED

HOW TO REBUILD TRUST AFTER YOU CHEATED

The truth is everybody makes mistakes, yet the mistake of infidelity can cause cracks in the foundation of even the most happy and successful of relationships. If you cheat on your significant other but have hopes of repairing the broken foundation you need to be prepared to be very patient.